My best friend once told me that her sister likes to create drama when she's bored. I think this is true of many girls. There was a party last night for a bunch of wind ensemble people, and we were having a great time until the drama showed up. We were all at assorted times playing the Nintendo Wii and socializing on the couch. Groups of two kept sneaking into the kitchen to gossip, and I was left out of it, meaning I was the one being talked about. I really don't mind being gossiped about, but I wanted to know what they were saying. The evening unfolded. The first girl left with a hug and some whispers kept below hearing range of the parents. One girl left in tears, thinking the entire gossip circle was all her fault. She thought everyone was mad at her. No one was. I was begged to stay an extra ten minutes so I wouldn't leave the drama and the host alone. In a rush, I had to go, but the drama followed. I was flamed with messages, saying "Don't be mad at me!" and "I still love you and I'm sorry!" and anything else that one could imagine.
What happened, one asks? What caused all this drama? Absolutely nothing. Nothing changed from before and after the party. The only result was people not being mad at people who were not mad at them, but everyone thinking everyone is mad at everyone. Aren't girls just wonderful?
yeah, we're good at spreading news. which is why Jesus appeared to women first when he rose from the dead.
ReplyDeletelolololol welcome to the world of regular girls!!!!! that is why mary doesn't have these problems, cause she hangs out with guys :) lolol.. keep your TRUE girlfriends close, though. they are priceless, and I mean that. They are friendships worth keeping. One thing I have learned, though, is to listen to other people. you can never get in trouble for listening. keep a cool head. you are more mature than most of your friends, but don't let them know that... let them admire that :)
ReplyDeletelove ya lil sis ;)